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Tips for Seniors to Get a Better Night’s Sleep

Getting a good night’s sleep and waking up rested are important and help maintain concentration, memory and focus at any age, especially as we age. Sleep not only refreshes us mentally; it also refreshes our immune system. Getting a solid seven to nine hours of sleep every night is important for adults but the way you feel upon waking—and feeling rested throughout the day—are good indicators of whether or not you’re getting the restful sleep you need for optimal quality of life.

Sleep patterns in seniors
Due to hormonal changes, older adults may notice changes in their sleep patterns such as waking up earlier in the morning or getting sleepy earlier in the evening. Other seniors may find themselves becoming “light sleepers.” While these changes are normal with aging and are relatively easy to adapt to, insomnia, disturbed sleep or waking up tired all the time are not normal and can affect health and well-being. Insufficient sleep can lead to depression or irritability, memory and attention issues, and may increase risk of certain health problems.

Sleep disruptions are not a normal part of aging, so it’s important for seniors to identify the underlying causes. These may be:

  • Emotional or psychological – Feeling stressed or anxious, or dealing with a significant life change or traumatic experience. Some ways to combat stress are to keep a journal, listen to calming music, do puzzles, and stay in touch with friends or relatives.
  • Medical – Chronic or emergent pain, and certain chronic conditions may make it difficult to fall asleep or cause you to wake up several times during the night. These may be sleep apnea, asthma, diabetes, heartburn, or arthritis to name a few. Medications may also be a factor.
  • Sedentary lifestyle – Being too sedentary and not getting enough exercise during the day inhibit restful sleep. The same goes for spending too much time indoors with a lack of sunlight.
    • If you can, take a walk outside, do chair Zumba or arm & leg exercises
    • Open the shades during the day to let in the sunlight, or use a light therapy box.
    • Avoid daytime naps so that you are more tired in the evening.
  • Diet – Some sleep-friendly dietary measures are:
    • Limit intake of coffee/tea or chocolate late in the day (these all contain caffeine that will stimulate your system rather than invite sleep).
    • Avoid consuming alcohol before bedtime, as this disrupts sleep
    • Reduce your consumption of sugary foods and refined carbohydrates – fresh vegetables and fruits, and whole grains are better for everyone
    • Avoid a big meal or spicy food just before you go to bed (indigestion!)
    • Limit your liquid intake about an hour or so before bedtime
  • Sleep environment/habits – Maintain consistent sleep hours, and keep your bedroom dark, quiet, and at a comfortable temperature.
    • If you are sensitive to noise, earplugs or a white noise machine are helpful, and a sleep mask can keep out light that may cause sleep problems.
    • Turn off the TV before bedtime
    • Don’t use backlit devices such as tablets or e-readers before bedtime; the artificial light can suppress your body’s production of melatonin, the hormone that makes your sleepy. Using a supplemental low-wattage lamp at your bedside will help with this if you are a late-night reader.
    • Mindfulness meditation and deep breathing are excellent ways to induce relaxation.

Making small changes from the list above can help improve your sleep experience if you’re having trouble sleeping or are not feeling rested when you wake up. Of course, if problems persist, please consult your medical professional to make sure underlying or chronic conditions are not causing issues.

Eat Your Peas & Carrots! The Importance of Good Nutrition at Every Age

Even the most active of older adults may find it difficult to keep up with creating and eating nutritious meals. There are many reasons, such as trouble chewing, decreased sense of taste or smell, dietary restrictions due to physical conditions, medication side effects, mobility issues (hard to shop or cook), or feeling isolated or lonely. However, as we age, a well-balanced, varied and nutritious diet is vitally important to help maintain not only physical health but cognitive health as well.

Eating fresh fruits and vegetables is the key to getting all the important vitamins and minerals; B vitamins, Vitamin D, calcium, and potassium are especially important. Fresh produce is more nutritionally beneficial than canned or frozen counterparts (although those will do in a pinch), can be seasoned in countless ways, and adds wonderful color and fiber to meals. Including a variety of high-fiber foods every day (whole grains are in that category) also helps you improve digestion, maintain a healthy weight, and reduce your risk of heart problems by moderating blood pressure and lowering high cholesterol.

There are several health maintenance nutritional programs recommended by the U.S. Department of Agriculture (USDA) and Department of Health and Human Services (HHS).

  • For people ages 50 and older, the USDA food patterns suggests eating 1.5 to 2.5 cups of fruit (such as a two-inch peach or 1/4 cup of dried fruit) and 2 to 3.5 cups of vegetables (this is measuring uncooked leafy vegetables) every day.
  • The USDA Food Guide MyPlate Plan offers tips for building a healthy, balanced diet, which include making half your plate fruits and vegetables.
  • The DASH Diet is designed to help reduce blood pressure and emphasizes foods that are heart healthy. It recommends daily serving amounts of 2 to 2.5 cups each of vegetables and fruit.
  • Avoid high-calorie/low-nutrient foods such as chips, cookies, soda, and alcohol (of course, an occasional treat is always fun).
  • Pick foods that are low in cholesterol and fat (especially saturated and trans fats).
  • Eat together. Make meals a social event you look forward to. Research suggests that people eat better when they are in the company of others. Whether at an Oneg Shabbat, dinner, or lunch with friends or family, social meals are happier meals for everyone around the table.

In cold weather, vegetable soups are a great way to fill up with good-for-you ingredients, and adding legumes, beef or chicken for protein makes for a well-rounded meal in a bowl. (At Lester Senior Living, our homemade soups are so popular, we stock them in our General Store so residents can enjoy them any time in their apartments.) Working with a nutritionist can help provide easy-to-follow guidelines to ensure you’re getting what you need to stay healthy. Some physical exercise is also important, whether it’s walking at a comfortable pace for some distance, chair yoga, or working out in the gym.

If you’re thinking of a retirement community and want to sample the dining options at Lester Senior Living, we invite you to contact David Rozen about our Friends & Neighbors weekday program or take advantage of a short-term respite stay in our assisted living residence. These both enable guests to sample delicious, glatt kosher meals with residents in our elegant dining rooms. Contact David at (973) 929-2725 or davidr@richardc95.sg-host.com.

Lester Senior Living is located at 903-905 Route 10 East on the Alex Aidekman Family Campus of the Jewish Federation in Whippany. The distinctive retirement community offers independent and assisted living as well as memory care options for seniors, ages 62+. For more information visit www.jchcorp.org.

Creating Memories with Seniors in The Face of Memory Loss

The effects of dementia on family members and friends can be difficult to deal with as older loved ones suffer with memory loss. Grown children and grandchildren may yearn to maintain connections with the seniors in their lives who are having trouble remembering shared experiences, milestone occasions, or even names.

However, there are many wonderful ways that families can create new memories for themselves and reawaken the joy of past people, places and things for seniors with dementia.

Memory boxes. Memory boxes, like scrapbooks, help seniors recall events and people from the past. The memory boxes and the memories they hold—literally and figuratively—can stimulate the person with dementia and prompt conversation. Memory boxes can be about one specific event, person or time in one’s life and they link the senior to his or her identity. Making and looking through a memory box can also lift spirits and spur creativity.

Items to include can be family photos, newspaper clippings, recipes, artwork by the grandchildren, and personal keepsakes; think of items that bring back memories of the loved one’s youth, special achievements, a beloved family pet or favorite vacation place. The box can be a shoe box or plastic bin—something easy to decorate, lift and open, and that can store items of different shapes and sizes. If your loved ones needs some prompts, you can label the items with stickers or tags to spur a memory and get your loved one to talk about the objects and events they are associated with.

Playing favorite music. Just as photos bring back memories for seniors with dementia, so can listening to music—especially music of their youth. Upon hearing music, many older adults with memory impairment become more alert; many will sing along, clap their hands and tap their feet. In our Memory Care Suite, residents enjoy weekly music therapy programs and iPods are available with music for them to listen to and bring back those happy memories. Because music crosses generations, visiting grandchildren can sing along and create a beautiful memory in the moment for everyone.

Bake or cook something together. The sensory stimulation of aroma can bring back memories—and doing the activity together can be fun. We have a baking club that meets every week in our kitchen to make something together and share memories of favorite foods (and some goodies).

Make a video. Provide some gentle prompts that help your loved one to share some family history, a funny story or personal events; or record family visits to play back for your loved one. Get the kids involved and on camera, too during the “interviews.” This is a beautiful way to strengthen family bonds and create a keepsake for the next generation. You can also have your family pre-record video messages to play for your loved one to brighten his or her day, remind them of their family connections and create a feeling of familiarity if they are no longer living at home. If you have old home movies, consider transferring them to DVD and watch them together—and enjoy a nice trip down memory lane.

Create art. Art give seniors with dementia a creative outlet, promotes relaxation and improves mood. Doing art together as a family also enables everyone to enjoy a fun activity together, even when verbal communication is difficult for the senior. Whether it’s drawing, painting, or flower arranging, a keepsake is also created that the person can keep in his or her room … and remember a happy moment with family or friends. At the Lester Senior Housing Community, our eclectic creative arts program is popular with residents in our independent living and assisted living buildings, including residents in our Memory Care Suite.

As you’ll see on our calendars, we offer our memory care residents a full range of activities that both stimulate and soothe: poetry and conversation circles, floral arts, music therapy and baking, aromatherapy and pet therapy among them. If you have a loved one with memory loss, we invite you to take a tour of our Memory Care Suite and learn more about our personalized approach to caring for seniors with dementia. Contact David Rozen at DavidR@richardc95.sg-host.com or 973-929-2725.

The Importance of Good Nutrition for Dementia Sufferers

So many of the things we take for granted in life become difficult for those with dementia, not the least of which is eating healthy and nutritious meals. Poor nutrition can increase a dementia patient’s behavioral symptoms. It can also cause weight loss that could make a person’s condition deteriorate more rapidly. To prevent these issues for seniors with memory disorders, caregivers need to make sure that those in their care are getting nutritious meals that help them maintain their physical and cognitive health.

It sounds simple, right? However, for a variety of reasons, people with dementia, especially older adults, don’t always want to eat. Some reasons for this include:

  • Not recognizing food. The person may no longer be familiar with the foods that they may have eaten in the past.
  • Ill-fitting dentures. Eating may hurt because of dentures that don’t fit correctly.
  • Medications. Any additions to or changes in medications may change the patient’s appetite.
  • Not enough exercise. Not exercising will decrease a person’s appetite.
  • Decreased sense of smell and taste. This may cause the food to be less appetizing as it once was.

Despite all of these issues, a healthy eating plan is important for seniors with dementia. They don’t need to have any special diet, unless they have other issues that call for certain food restrictions. If not, they should eat a well-balanced, varied and nutritious diet which will help them maintain optimal health.

Here are some ways you can help someone with dementia to keep up good eating habits for as long as possible:

  • Limit distractions. Serve meals in a quiet place. Avoid television or other distractions so the person can concentrate on eating.
  • Keep the table setting simple. Don’t put items on the table such as centerpieces or plastic fruit that might distract or confuse the person. That goes for extra utensils as well; only put utensils on the table that the person needs.
  • Distinguish food from the plate. Someone with dementia may have a hard time distinguishing food from the plate or the plate from the table because of impaired visual abilities. Try to use white plates or bowls with a contrasting color placemat. Avoid anything with patterns.
  • Check the food temperature. A person with dementia might not be able to tell if something is too hot to eat or drink and may burn themselves. Test food and drink temperature before serving.
  • Serve only one or two foods at a time. Too many foods at once may be confusing to the patient. Try serving one food at a time, for example, mashed potatoes followed by meat.
  • Be flexible to food preferences. Dementia patients may not remember liking certain foods, or may suddenly like something that they didn’t care for previously. Keep that in mind when preparing food. This is one of the ways our individualized comfort care comes into play in our Memory Care Suite; it’s about providing what the individual prefers.
  • Give the person plenty of time to eat. This helps avoid the risk of choking and creates a calm atmosphere, so important for emotional well-being.
  • Eat together. Make meals a social event so residents look forward to the mealtime. Research suggests that people eat better when they are in the company of others.
  • Keep in mind that people with dementia may not remember when or if they ate. If the person asks over and over about eating breakfast, consider serving several breakfasts—maybe eggs, then toast, then a pancake, then juice.

At the Lester Senior Housing Community’s Memory Care Suite, we understand the importance of good nutrition and caring for healthy bodies as well as minds and spirits. Healthful and enjoyable meal experiences for our residents are just one component of the holistic, person-centered care our caregivers provide. If you have a loved one with a memory disorder who would benefit from Memory Care at Lester, contact David Rozen at (973) 929-2725 or davidr@richardc95.sg-host.com.